The Formula of a Power Couple

Everyone is on the search to find that match, the one, their catalyst! But, some say it’s hard to find. The question is, what are you looking for? Most people want a dynamic relationship, but are searching for the things that do not match dynamic characteristics. Having extreme ambition and vision is a start.  Most people get the person they desire, and then internally (by emotion) fight them because it does not match what they expected. Power couples are a team of TWO. No homies, no girlfriends. Just you and her or you and him. If you want the roster of a football team, a power couple is not what you want. If you’re worried about being seen as too much into him or her, a power couple is not what you want. If you cannot make your own decisions and are easily influenced, a power couple is not for you. If you do not know how to compromise, a power couple is certainly NOT for you. If you are too fearful to stand on your own feet let alone someone else’s, a power couple is not for you. See, a power couple’s relationship is a clear and specified relationship, both publicly and privately. No questions asked. It’s an all-in, let’s make this happen, and let’s blow their minds sort of ordeal. Therefore if you’re hesitant and need to think twice before acting, you might want to muster up some spontaneity and confidence. Fellas, I’ll start with you.

Here’s The Woman You Want:

The woman you want is sharp, precise, and quick on her toes. She’s very honest. She slices bs and rejects drama. The woman you want travels alone 90% of the time. She knows how to stand alone and she’s very self-aware. She’s a positive, still spirited woman. She amplifies your energy and works harder when you’re tired. She consistently challenges and supports you. By nature, you fellas can sometimes make some irrational and dumb decisions. Even if you’re completely wrong, she will stand in support and follow you, even if she has suggested otherwise. An once she’s followed you down that dead-end road you proposed, she’ll look at you and say without shaming you, “Are you ready to go back.” With a cheery smile. As you should have listened, you follow her back trusting her 10x’s more than you did before. She’s very brutal at times, but extremely compassionate. The woman you want is your comforter, and she cradles you like a newborn just as it’s been born. She knows when to give and when to take (50/50). She’s always spot on when time to boost your ego. Cause’ you are the man and you handle business! That’s what she says. She’s balanced. It’s why you desire her–because she carries the perfect amount of ying and yang/light and dark. She the freshly made, extremely fast, Porsche 911 GT2 RS, all while carrying the sweet sounding purr of the engine. Recognizing her power, she slightly makes you nervous, but you love it because it forces you to buck up your chest a little more to match her force. She has a plan and a vision, and she will not stop until she achieves those dreams. But, be careful…if you don’t handle her right, you’re bound to crash.

You are attracted to the woman who reflects the deepest vision of yourself. If that woman, who surrenders, permits you to an experience, that experience will boost/validate you sense of self-esteem. Ayn Rand says, “The man who is proudly certain of his own value, will want the highest type of woman he can find, the woman he admires, the strongest, the hardest to conquer – because only the possession of a heroine will give him the sense of an achievement, not the possession of a brainless slut.” Here words not mine.

Okay ladies.

Here’s The Man You Want:

The man you want is just about a direct match to the characteristics I stated above. He’s sharp, precise, and fast on his feet. He meets and matches your desire before you think of what that desire is. He’s extremely supportive and lets any and every other person know, who the woman and man, when you want to be, is around the house. No one breaks his confidence because you provide him with more than he needs. Your confident with leaving him around extremely gorgeous woman (but don’t you do it), because he’ll let them know with a quickness, that you’re slightly crazy and do not think twice when it comes on to what yours. But, he’ll never put himself in that situation. He takes pride in saying, thank you, but no thank you. The man you want carries a strong sensitive, yet masculine sensual energy. He relaxes your nerves on a rough and skewed day without having to touch you. He’s your protector. He caresses your feelings, and sits with you when emotional. Because he understands the roll of a woman, and he wants you to need him as your rescuer. He picks up where you fall off and vise-versa. He’s slow to anger, but when he does get angry, he doesn’t have to say a word because everyone feels his seriousness. He doesn’t rest all of his cards on sexual desire because he’s well aware that the type of woman you are needs more stimulation than physical encounters. “The man who despises himself tries to gain self-esteem from sexual adventures—which can’t be done, because sex is not the cause, but an effect and an expression of a man’s sense of his own value . . .He does not seek to gain his value, he seeks to express it. There is no conflict between the standards of his mind and the desires of his body.”-Ayn Rand The man you want is just as passionate, deep, and logically aware as you are. He’s the roaring engine on a Z05 corvette with the biggest heart.

Do you have what it takes?

Building is their mission, and longevity is their end game. Envisioning, dreaming, and creativity is their dinner every evening. If you have found a possible match/spark, don’t question it, run with it! However, if you’re working hard to get the ball rolling move on. Power couples work hard, but they don’t work to keep things together because things move in sync (or they should). Characteristics of each male and female above can be easily detected. However, sometimes they’re mis-communicated as someone with too much drive, too much ambition, and too intense. In a relationship like this, you can never ask for too much.

Below are some classic and current power couples:

At the beginning of the 20th century, R.J. and Katharine Reynolds became one of the region's most influential couples in business.
At the beginning of the 20th century, R.J. and Katharine Reynolds became one of the region’s most influential couples in business.





Beyonce ‘Queen B” and Jay-Z


Power Couple: 1912. Washington, 1912. “Edward Beale McLean with Mrs. McLean.” Edward (Ned) would become publisher of the Washington Post
Formerly a writer for Moesha and The Jamie Foxx Show, Mara Brock Akil is (with husband Salim Akil) part of the power couple behind BET’s hit comic drama The Game.








Hollywoods power couple Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie
Hollywood’s power couple Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie











Hollywood power couple Will and Jada Pinkett-Smith
Hollywood power couple Will and Jada Pinkett-Smith

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Welcome! My name is Sarah Lee and I'm a Business Strategist and social entrepreneur who loves the outdoors, a good book, and scary movies year round! Throughout this quirky, rich, and mysterious life of mine, I genuinely love to 'share' my experiences as a learning tool. I thought, what better way to track my level of growth than by sharing my experiences and the lessons learned thereof, than in my blog? A wise woman once said, "You are your own masterpiece, therefore, instead of mastering it, master you."

7 thoughts on “The Formula of a Power Couple”

  1. Sarah, I love reading your blog and this one just took the cake for me. The way you explained everything and put it in prospective has me thinking about a new approach to the Power Couple. This post was so powerful, I’ve shared it on all my social media sites.. This is truly the winning combination to a successful Power couple..

    1. Thank you for sharing, and I’m glad I opened up a new perspective on “The Power Couple.” It’s important that we know what we’re getting ourselves into. “The Power Couple” has many benefits, but it takes a-lot of work!

    1. Thank you!
      I always say, small changes are still changes. Usually, they’re the ones that end up becoming the most profound in the long run.
      Very true. Thanks again!

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