Yesterday I read this headline of an article that someone posted.
There’s a small part of me that just sinks when I read about people who have committed suicide. Those stories, the others of depression, and identity crisis’, are the driving force of my blog. I hope that sharing my own fears, imperfections, thoughts, and the things I question, will allow others to understand that they’re not alone. Most importantly, you can overcome those things. Look at me!
We all ask the same questions, in different ways. No matter how many times I Google a question, I am beside myself at how many other people had the SAME question I did. And I’m talking about those questions that people believe an adult SHOULD know. Imagine my comfort! lol
Life is a work in progress and it will forever be that way.
No matter how far I go, or how much of a success that I become, I guarantee you that there will be things that I will have to work on to overcome. Each height or level of growth acquires a new mindset that we have to work towards. There’s never a destination. That’s why, as the saying says, you MUST enjoy the journey. Find the joy in the process of growth; becoming.
I am not perfect in regards to what society defines as what a woman should be, or look like. However, I think that I was and have always been perfect the minute I was conceived and released out of my mother’s womb. No matter what I do, where I do, or what happens to me, I am the idea of what perfection is. Simply because I exist, and SO DO YOU!
I want to take the moment to let YOU know, no matter what you have, own, or don’t have, your life is as equally valuable to those who do have, and it’s not to be compared. You are you. You have a handcrafted and encrypted fingerprint, DNA, and mind that is to be molded to your liking.
Whether you own a business, are a parent, a student, or a regular somebody, understand that if something fell through, it doesn’t matter. There’s ALWAYS the option to begin again.
There are no mistakes, only opportunities.
It’s never the question of “When am I going to be?” It’s the statement of, “I am who I already Am.” #iamthatiam
Do you remember that dream or idea of what you wanted to be like when you were older? Well..I am that person I imaged. It just took the moment of realizing that the moment I decided who I wanted be, is the second I became that person.
So, in the eye of society, maybe I need to be a little more flattering towards my look, or have straighter teeth (I was a thumb sucker as a child 😉 ), or become more “womanly”, whatever that is. It’s not necessary. I’m already the person I am and have sought out to be.
I am just as perfect with those things, as I am without.
My condolences to all of the people before my lifetime and now, who have committed suicide. As a personal, career, and professional development consultant, suicide is one of the things that I have dedicated my life to curing. I am more confident now than ever to quit my job in the next few months to helping EVERYONE understand, that by birth, we were and still are, instantly perfect. Therefore, there’s no need to achieve the perfect that already exist. No matter what society says. It’s all about PROGRESS!
Have a good one, Perfect People!